Hypnotherapy for Sexual issues (men)
Sex is something that we do. It is one of our most basic needs and can form a vital part of our romantic relationships. So, when it goes wrong it can feel awful and to make matters worse we have no control over how our partners may react.
Many clients get caught up in the endless cycle of, 'why wont it work and what if it happens again?'
'Is my partner just telling me that its okay and really thinking that I'm lousy in bed?'
You begin to fear the next time and begin to feel a pressure that wasn't really there before.
This then sets off a cycle of anxiety, erectile dysfunction, anxiety, erectile dysfunction and so on...
Erectile dysfunction can happen to men of all ages. You may begin to fear the prospect of a new relationship, or start to avoid sex in the current one. You may start to feel a pang of shyness or discomfort when your friends start to make jokes about sex in the pub.
However it happened, you certainly don't have to live with it. Sometimes, Erectile dysfunction can be medical but once that has been treated or ruled out, then Hypnotherapy can help you to leave this problem behind. It doesn't have to ruin a great evening and it certainly doesn't have to come between you and your sense of masculinity.
In fact, most men who have this problem really do care about satisfying those who they chose to be intimate with. And it is usually the men that do care, who are more likely to experience a good sex life.
I would be glad to discuss anything with you. You only need to contact me if you have any worries, concerns or fears. I'll look forward to hearing from you.
Don't let this problem hold you back anymore, lets get it sorted.
Yet another threat to masculinity is the idea that you cannot satisfy your partner because you simply cannot last long enough. Throughout history men and performance are associated with one another and so your self esteem is likely to take a bit of a battering if you have experienced premature ejaculation for any length of time.
As is the case with Erectile dysfunction men who suffer from this tend to be those who care about satisfying their partner and they are more likely to be attentive in the bedroom. However, elevated levels of emotion and stress get in the way and create a nasty cycle of heightened emotion, unsatisfactory sexual experiences and poor self esteem.
In the end, some men avoid sex. The idea of it can literally bring on headaches and tiredness which are ideal excuses when you really don't want to sleep with someone.
Can hypnotherapy help me?
Hypnotherapy is great for premature ejaculation because often the problem lies with your emotions. I can help you to realise that you are in fact a bit of a diamond in the rough. Your ability to connect with your emotions at an elevated level causes the over excitement. However, it also means that you have a better chance of connecting with your sexual partner.
- I will help you to regulate your emotions by calming the unhelpful feelings and increasing those that enable you to perform in the ways that you want to
- I can help you to resolve any relationship issues that may have caused or been effected by your experience of premature ejaculation
- I can help you to unlearn the old habits that allow this problem to continue and teach you new habits
- Importantly, I can help you to enjoy your sexual experiences again so that you can leave the idea of underperforming behind
Premature ejaculation doesn't have to stop you.
If you want to find out more about how hypnotherapy can help you then contact me and we can discuss your needs and any worries or concerns that you might be having. I'll look forward to hearing from you to get started.